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October 27, 2015 / Victoria Paulsen

Power to the Students!

I stopped posting on this blog a couple of years ago, but am beginning again, not with the same emphasis but a more immediately important one —

Yesterday and today the media has been flooded with the video from Spring Valley High in South Carolina of the girl being manhandled by the resource officer who was called to remove her from class. The emphasis is all on the poor student and how traumatizing the incident was. No-one speaks of what led up to it.

Why was the resource officer called? Because the girl refused to go to the office when the teacher requested it. Why was she being sent to the office? Because she was disrupting the class and making it hard for the teacher to do her job.

Evidence: she had her cell phone out and was on the computer.

Maybe the computer was for classwork but in my experience students who don’t want to learn use every opportunity to get on the internet either by phone or computer to play games or check text messages.

If the girl had been paying attention and doing her work, she wouldn’t have been asked to leave.

Yes, the resource officer used too much force. It was wrong.

Five years ago I became a substitute teacher at the local high school. It’s small, diverse, and only has 500 students. Here’s what I wrote: “I subbed for English. What fun! Nice, polite students and nice staff. “

My opinion of the students has remained high. However, at the ages of 13-16, even a normally respectful student can blow up without warning.

As a substitute, I work especially hard at patience, knowing the classes will try to take advantage of me. I allow it up to a point.

In biology class I was conducting an experiment using test tubes and pieces of smelly liver. The class of thirty freshmen gathered around, fidgeting and squirrely, trying to give the impression of not paying attention but intrigued nonetheless.

Then two girls in front began the clapping game.   Noisily giggling and laughing as they capered through the intricate patterns, they were having a fine time.

“Please stop,” I requested loudly but they didn’t hear.

I tried again, louder. The class began to murmur and snicker.

Desperate, I stuck my hand between theirs, trying to time it so they wouldn’t hit me. Slam! Ouch! Our hands connected and my fingernail scratched Abbie’s hand. She was incensed!

“You hurt me!”

When I didn’t respond as she wanted, her “hurt” escalated into “You hit me!”

I just shook my head in disbelief as she continued to squeal. Her friend was remarkably quiet, getting out her pencil to be ready for the experiment.

When the class wasn’t backing Abbie up, she yelled, “You can’t hit me! I’m going to the office!”

I watched her slam out the door and started again on the experiment, this time with everyone’s attention. It was going well for about eight minutes.

The door opened and in marched a woman who I later found out was the new vice principal, along with one of the other substitute teachers.

“Would you come with me, Mrs. Paulsen,” she said. It wasn’t a request. “Bring your things.”

That became a two-day suspension for me, two days in which my crime was investigated. No misdeed was discovered and I was reinstated. For days afterwards, whenever I was subbing one of more students would say, “Hey, Mrs. Paulsen, I hear you hit a kid!”

What if a student had taken a video and shown it to the media?   Even though I was in the right, my reputation would be ruined, my job finished, and I would be hounded by well-meaning people who considered me to be a horror in a classroom.

The media have made a killing on the South incident. What isn’t being addressed is that the girl was disrupting the class enough to make the teacher send her to the office. And the girl refused to go.

What have students learned from this? That they have power over teachers. Remember Frankie? “I don’t have to listen to you!”

In chemistry, a boy turned on the faucet at the lab station. The water began flooding over the counter.

“Move!” I ordered Bradley as I grabbed some nearby paper towels.

He didn’t budge so I put my hand on his shoulder and put pressure there to move him out of my way. As I mopped up the puddle, Brad started in:

“You’re not allowed to touch me! You shoved me! I am going to get you fired!”

“Go to the vice principal,” I suggested, and off he went, ranting away.

As the students got back to work, I packed up my things, expecting at any minute to see the new vice principal come through the door. To my surprise, he never came. When I found him after school, he just smiled and said that with questioning, Brad had finally admitted he had been in the wrong.

It was a narrow escape for me. Two incidents in four years.

A cell phone video doesn’t show what leads up to an “incident.”

All power to the student.

“I don’t have to!”

“I’ll get you fired!”

“You can’t do that!”

Yes, I have enjoyed, really enjoyed, four years of substitute teaching here. But I know how ruinous it would be if I had to go through what the teacher in South Carolina will face. I don’t think I will take the chance.

All it takes is one video.

December 6, 2012 / Victoria Paulsen

The Big Bad Wolf Cooked Bea’s Goose

The Big Bad Wolf Cooked Bea's Goose.

December 6, 2012 / Victoria Paulsen

Bea’s Goose is Cooked by the Big Fat Pig

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A pig will eat anything. The Bank of America is a pig, devouring the heart and soul of my 99-year old friend, Bea Berglund.

Is that strong? Good!

Today, Wednesday, the Bank declared that Bea must be out by the end of the week or she will be evicted!

Why doesn’t she simply go? She can’t. Her situation is unlike any other.

She has nowhere else to go. Places she might rent have poofed as soon as she’s shown interest. Even the one recommended by the social worker turned up negative.

 Her trailer cannot be legally moved since it would not meet modern code which discriminates against old people and trailers over 10 years old. She has other sheds on the property, too, filled with her “treasures.” She abhors houses.

Six dogs complicate matters, gentle and well-behaved as they are.
Sometimes Bea says she would rather die than lose her dogs and her “things.” It may come to that. She rallies after each setback, but never quite up to the previous level.

A few days ago I told you that the Bank was holding off because of “media concerns.” Why are they now not concerned? Let’s make them sweat!

Please help by contacting the news channels. Send messages to all the TV channels and newspapers (L.A. Times, San Bernardino Sun, N.Y Times – why not?) and rail about the moral injustice of this. It’s the only chance Bea has, since legally the Bank is within its rights.

I tried ABC Eyewitness News several times, put in all the info, then hit “enter” and watched the circle whirl around until a message came that it hadn’t gotten through. It was OK then because that’s when Bea was probably safe because the Bank didn’t want bad publicity.

We’re not trying to cheat the Bank by deferring the property sale, because no-one is going to buy it! It’s a dump! There is so much foreclosed property in Newberry Springs, unsold, that to think Bea’s lot will be an exception, is stupid.IMG_2364

I thank you for your past support and plead for more, just for awhile. Christmas is coming, Bea’s goose is getting cooked by the Big Fat Pig.

November 16, 2012 / Victoria Paulsen

Reading by the Fire

Reading by the Fire.

November 16, 2012 / Victoria Paulsen

Reading by the Fire

Paris Pastries

Happy Holidays to all, especially to those who have been through hard times recently. My small contribution will be a day or two of service in New Jersey as we visit our daughter over Thanksgiving, but it will be given with a heart full of love.

Amazon reminded me that the Holidays are a great time for people to buy books for themselves, family and friends. There are few nicer pleasures than relaxing with a good book. a pot of your choice (chocolate, coffee, tea, lemonade, mango surprise), and some yummy French pastries. I want to suggest you consider putting The Amulet on your list. More and more people are reading it and loving it, which pleases me no end. I wouldn’t want anyone to miss out on an experience they might enjoy a lot!

Click on “link” to get to my author page on Amazon with a biography and all the info about the e-version but not the paperback. From there click the “book search” link to another Amazon site and you’ll find the paperback version. I know it’s not efficient but I’m not in charge. You can also just go to Amazon and search for Victoria Paulsen.

September 12, 2012 / Victoria Paulsen

Saving Bea

I’ve been sidelined from blogging by writing the book and by the October 5 eviction of my 99-year old friend, Bea. The Bank of America decided to clear the property after the owner died last year leaving a debt. I’m trying to help Bea by drumming up enough support that the Bank will back off. For now, for me, Bea is the priority. More info is on the blog I’ve done about her — savingbea.wordpress.com
Thanks for any help or comments you can give. I tried posting some pictures but the crunching never stopped and I’m in a hurry. See Bea on the savingbea blog.

September 7, 2012 / Victoria Paulsen

Pass the Word!

To celebrate the 1806th anniversary of when The Amulet begins (196 AD), Amazon will offer the electronic version FREE from September 28 to October 2.

If you haven’t yet read it, now is your chance. If you have read it and liked it, PLEASE encourage your friends and acquaintances to give it a try. If it wasn’t your favorite book, it might be someone else’s. I really appreciate any help you can give me!

Abies in Portland, OR says —
This is a great book! I love the story, and it’s going straight onto my shelf of favorites. Lydia, the main character, has it all — intelligent, independent, adventurous, yet very feminine. AND I got to learn about Roman history, quite enjoyably!

www.amazon.com/dp/B007WGLQ9Y links directly to The Amulet e-version. For the “not free” paperback version, I can’t get it to be a “link” so you have to go to Amazon.com and search for Victoria Paulsen. Oh well. Thanks!